2. Examine how you feel when you are talking about your assets.
· Do
you feel awkward and tense?
· Embarrassed?
3. What messages are you telling yourself?
· Do
you wonder if people will think youre boasting?
· Are
you concerned about your perceived lack of accomplishment?
4.
Identify your irrational beliefs. E.g.:
· People
should automatically see my accomplishments.
· I
couldnt stand it if people thought I was bragging.
· I
am not good enough for this job.
· Any
other irrational beliefs you hear yourself saying.
5. Challenge these shoulds, musts
and demands for comfort and approval.
· Why
is it awful to remind people of my value?
· Why
cant I stand people thinking I am boastful if it will help my career?
6. Replace
your irrational beliefs with more rational ideas.